Ten traits that attract women

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September 2011


There are ten personality traits that attract women. Each reveals a part of a man’s true character. They show women if you’re going to be a good match. If you’re a good person. If you have what it takes to make her happy. If you’re short-term or long-term dating material. Needless to say, it’s important for men to have all ten traits.

Having five of the ten traits isn’t enough. Missing a single one can ruin a date or relationship in the blink of an eye.

Positive outlook
Women can’t help but be attracted to positive men. These men act like magnets. Wherever they’re standing in a room, a crowd follows to bathe in their positive glow. A big smile, followed by some kind words, is their trademark greeting and usually all it takes to win women over.

The world can be a negative place, full of disappointment and failure. People are naturally attracted to positive people because they make us feel good about ourselves. They make us feel safe. They make us feel special.

A confident man is alluring. He stands out in a crowd. His posture is powerful. His eyes self-assured. His walk mesmerizing. He isn’t afraid to be the center of attention or shift into the background. Nor is he afraid to just be himself. For a woman, a confident man is hard to find and even harder to keep her eyes off of.

Confidence is a mix of many. Combine a healthy self-image, strong body language, the smell of success and a certain swagger, and you’ve got confidence. Confidence is addictive to everyone around you. It’s a powerful emotion they all want to be a part of in hopes it will rub off on them.

Women love men who aren’t afraid to go after the things they want in life. Aggression takes energy, vitality, fearlessness, ambition and passion. All are emotions women covet in men and want in their own lives. Each are also emotions a woman partners with sexuality. Thus, an aggressive man will be seen as a more sexual figure than a passive man.

Just know there is an art to aggression. An overly-aggressive man will come off abrasive and needy. It should be a muted aggression built on calm and cool. If a man doesn’t show he needs the woman’s attention, odds are he’ll get it.

Women are attracted to men they can’t control or predict. They obsess over the men who flirt, give them attention, and then don’t feel the need to talk the next day. The lack of availability creates mystery and intrigue. They assume he’s seeing other women and will try that much harder to earn more of his time.

A kitten never tires of chasing a string that’s just out of reach, but once it has the string in its clutches, it quickly loses interest. Women, to some degree, are like the kitten. They love the thrill of the chase. So don’t drop the string guys. Always keep them guessing.

An independent man doesn’t lose touch with his own life, friends and interests when dating a woman. He will view her as a welcome addition to his world, but not his entire world. Independent men have busy lives. They aren’t going to clear their entire schedule to accommodate a woman.

Refusing to drop everything for a woman will actually impress her more than clearing your schedule to accommodate her. By keeping dates with friends and continuing hobbies, a man shows that he’s loyal, doesn’t need to be entertained all the time and has lots options to keep him busy.

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Adventurous men a mix use a mix of adrenaline and psychology to attract women. Adventurous activities take women on an emotional roller-coaster, washing away their everyday concerns with fun and excitement. The emotional overload is going to thrill her and cause her to be more care-free.

Adventure dates are not only a lot of fun, but they provide you with amazing stories to help attract other dates. An added bonus is your adventure partner usually transfers the excitement of the adventure into seeing you as more exciting, fun and sexy. So feel free to use white water rapids, steep cliffs and open sky to increase her attraction.

A woman doesn’t want to be fawned over for every thing she does, but she does want you to appreciate the little things. When a woman cuts the grass, does the dishes or takes out the trash, all she needs is a “thanks” and a kiss on the cheek.

But when she does something outside the realm of everyday chores and expectations, she expects you to notice. If she put on her best dress for your dreaded staff party, reward her with a flirtatious wink from across the room, then whisper something seductive in her ear as you walk past.

Honesty is always the best policy. Strong, confident men aren’t afraid to be completely honest. If it isn’t working out they don’t lie to themselves or their partner. They accept it.

Relationships, however big or small, are built on trust. If you shatter that trust, you might never be able to put it back together. This is why men who try to be something they aren’t, are always doomed to failure.

Men don’t need to be stand-up comedian or have a show on Comedy Central to be considered funny. All you need to be able to do is make the occasional joke or provide a humorous comeback if someone’s hassling you.

Being funny isn’t that difficult, but it is a very powerful tool to impress women. Women always list humor as one of the most attractive traits a man can have. And nothing wins the friends of women over faster than a witty comeback.

Cool under fire
Women want a man who can handle any social situation that comes up. A man who doesn’t get rattled by difficult people, places or situations. Men that know how to keep a bad situation from escalating into something worse, make life a lot easier for women.

Women judge how a man reacts under stressful situations – especially when she doesn’t know a lot about him. Showing poorly in one of these situations can cost you a date or even a relationship. So keep your head and stay cool.