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By Serene Tng
Hi everyone, I am Serene. I don’t claim to be an expert in relationships or love. But I guess when it comes to speed dating, active looking, experiencing good and bad relationships; I’ve done it all. I’m a true believer in love. And at this moment, I’ve just given up my career and everything else that is comfortable for love. Yes, I like to go to the extreme and test the theory of living on love and fresh air. So I hope you enjoy my short takes on everything to do with finding what you want. Love is in the air!
Five Principles of Conscious Dating
31 August 2010
How conscious are you when you date? Do you know who you are and what you want? This week we would like to share with you these five principles of conscious dating from David Steele (Founder of Relationship Coaching Institute).
1. Know who you are and what you want
Understand your values, life purpose, temperament, strengths and weaknesses. Sharpen your clarity about your life vision, relationship requirements, needs, and wants. Like an iceberg, we are typically aware only of the tip, while our success and happiness depends upon what lies below the surface.
2. Be the “Chooser”
Take initiative and responsibility for your outcomes. Don’t react to what, or who, chooses you. Seek to create what you want in your life. Don’t limit yourself to what you can see in front of you. Assume abundance.
3. Balance your heart with your head
Is it chemistry or common sense? It’s both! Make your relationship choices consciously, with your vision, values, goals, and requirements in mind, as well as chemistry and attraction.
4. Practice assertiveness
To get what you really want, you need to say “No” to what you don’t want. Take care of yourself in your relationships by learning to identify and enforce your boundaries.
5. Be a “Successful Single”
Don’t put your life on hold waiting for a relationship to happen. Live your life vision and purpose while you are single. The best way to find your life partner is to be a happy, successful single person living the life that you really want. Pursue your goal of a relationship while living life fully in the present and letting go of your attachment to future outcomes.
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Eight dating traps – 17 August 2010
Eight speed dating tips – 13 July 2010
Don’t give up – 6 July 2010
Where and how to meet potential partners - 29 July 2010
Make your own rules – 22 June 2010
Pick-up lines – 15th June 2010
Compliments – 8th June 2010
Alone time – 1st June 2010
It’s the small things – 25 May 2010
Are you too demanding – 18 May 2010
How do you restore trust - 11 May 2010
Sometimes, it is better not to be nice – 4 May 2010
Kissing turn- offs – 27 April 2010
6 essential flirting moves for men – 20 April 2010
Love is … – 13 April 2010
Reality Strikes – 6 April 2010
Nine ways to tell if the one you’re with isn’t for you – 30 March 2010
Memorable Dates – 23 March 2010
Sustaining Relationships - 16 March 2010
Common Interests - 9 March 2010
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